Getting to the Heart of the Matter, Simplifying the Complicated

One on One & Group Couples Coaching is for you if you…

✓ are committed to deepening and improving the love and connection you already experience

✓ have found yourself resigned in your relationship and desire to create a new, fun, and peaceful way of being with one another

✓ experience frustration with your inability to communicate and express effectively with your partner

✓ are in a pattern of reacting to one another

✓ are tired of walking on eggshells around your partner not saying what you need to say and what matters to you

✓ are ready to elevate your expression of intimacy to a totally new height

imagine…

✓ being fully expressed in your communication

✓ being heard and understood by your partner

✓ resolving issues and concerns as they come up in the moment

✓ leaving behind expectations and creating powerful agreements

✓ feeling empowered to engage in difficult conversation

✓ completing the past and creating a better than you can imagine future together

We get where you are

“Can’t two people just come together, get along, support one another, and F all the bullsh*t?!”

After years of suffering in relationship, feeling suppressed and alone, unable to communicate without reacting, and closing off parts of ourselves out of fear of rejection and emotional outburst, we began asking ourselves, “Is this all there is? This is as good as it gets?”

Whatever place you are in right now in your relationship, you CAN begin anew if you are committed to something more, something extraordinary.

Because of our commitment to eliminating the unnecessary suffering that we deal with in relationship, we have created a space for you to come and complete the past and create an unimaginably beautiful future together.

Choose at whatever level you’re willing to play, whether that be a 1:1 or a group container setting, and we promise that you will experience the love and transformation you’ve been hoping and praying for.

Testimonials

  • After years of dis-ease in my physical body, with my emotional health, within my spirit, AND in our marriage, the most recent theme in my life has been, "What is medicine?". The container that Xavier and Adriana hold for myself and my husband to share, learn, and collaborate with other like-minded couples has been nothing short of pure, divine, medicine. We look forward to our twice-monthly dose that keeps us WELL and dramatically impacts the healing within our marriage- as well as other aspects of our lives. It is a deep level of support that we didn't know we needed until we jumped in. The health of our marriage ripples out far beyond our comprehension. The immediate ripples are easy to see; in our home life, with our children, how it impacts our work...but this boulder of LOVE is so powerful that it feels quite revolutionary to be honest. World-changing. Life changing. One of the biggest learnings has been, "Only love is real." What a profound truth that acts as a balm during the times when we are triggered by tsunamis of big emotions that cloud our connection. I am deeply appreciative of that. Thank you, dear ones. You are changing the world by offering this space for couples to not only heal but to create something extraordinary. Thank you to the other couples who so graciously share their hearts and souls with us. I love you all deeply.

    — Lindsay Gilman, Arizona

  • My experience working with Xavier and Adriana has been been powerful, safe, loving and left no stone unturned when it came to working on any and all issues in my life, and more specifically my relationship. The container created by the group setting held every other week was transformative beyond what I thought was possible. Seeing and hearing others speak honestly and openly about what they were going through, and had found resolution in, allows you to see yourself in everyone and learn how to handle whatever life throws at you in a way I had never experienced. It also enables you to implement these changes in your life faster than I imagined it could. These sessions have not only helped heal the relationship with my wife, but have also filtered out to relationships with my children, family, friends and co-workers.

    "Only love is real" So true! Thank you both for creating such a wonderful space! Thank you to every other couple that joined and gave and received so openly as well! This is a gift to the world!

    All my love,

    - Casey Gilman, Arizona

  • The amount of growth, love, and intimacy my partner and I have continued to build on these past few months has been extremely powerful, and it's all thanks to TLC! Adriana and Xavier have been the catalyst for my personal growth and in the development of my relationship with my partner, and I couldn't be more grateful for them and what they do. Adriana and Xavier inspire you to be authentic, honest, and wholehearted. They have pushed my partner and I to improve as individuals and as a team. Since working with them, I have noticed a change in my and my partner's career and mindset. All areas in our lives have shifted quickly for us and in the best way possible! A new job, increased income, improved communication, business growth, and more! Being with TLC has made me appreciate my relationship much more because when my partner and I are doing great, everything else in our life falls into perfect harmony and alignment. I am inspired by the love I share with my partner and am thankful for being a part of TLC.

    Thank you, Adriana and Xavier!

    -Natalhie Ruiz, Colorado

  • Since joining this community, my relationship with my significant other has improved for the best! Before, we would hold on to so many little things that would affect the relationship and never talk about our problems, just allowing them to bubble up under the surface. We would fight weekly and hold on so tightly to what the other person said and did to us. But, being surrounded by such a safe and caring group of people has allowed me to open up more with my partner and express myself wholeheartedly. We now have the space to express sincerely with one another and resolve the conflicts that arise.

    For any couple that is in love and looking to upgrade their relationships to the next level, TLC is the perfect thing to help push you forward.

    -Khalil Combs, Colorado

  • After 30 years of marriage, my husband, Patrick and I divorced. At that point in our lives we didn’t have the tools and support to have the conversations that would keep our marriage intact. We chose being right over being happy. Thank you to Xavier and Adriana for your love and support. Your coaching, Couple’s Calls, and your love and friendship have been totally transformational. I am extremely happy to say that Patrick and I are back together and choosing happiness and love over being right.

    -Sherie Quigley, Arizona

Upcoming Couples Creation Conversations

Come be a part of a 3 month conversation creating what’s possible in relationship, expressing what’s needed and what matters as things come up, creating anew right where you are, becoming practiced in new ways of communicating, and seeing just how related we all really are in what we deal with in ALL areas of life, especially in relationship.

3 Months of Transformative Conversations

Upcoming TLC Couples Forward

Announcing soon!

Imagine yourself in a kickass custom built home in the pine trees, breathing in cool crisp morning air with views overlooking the mountains at sunset, coming together and connecting with like minded people, experiencing and expressing love with your partner like you’d never thought possible.. That’s only the beginning of what we create at our quarterly TLC Couples Forwards.

let’s get to the details, shall we?

1:1 Couples Coaching via Zoom

✓ (1) 90 minute session / week

✓ 1:1 personalized coaching and support creating a vivid picture of the relationship you desire to experience in just 3 months time

your investment:

the timeline:

$4,500

3 months

Couples Creation Group Conversation via Zoom

✓ (2) 2 hour session / month

✓ (1) 40 minute 1:1 session / month upon request of each couple

✓ Relationship creation and community sharing and support

your investment:

the timeline:

$1,800

3 months

TLC Couples Forward (Retreat)

✓ 3 days and 3 nights w/ room and meals

✓ (2) 2 hour Couples Creation Conversations

✓ Nightly Table Talk Conversations

✓ Morning Breathwork, Movement, Meditation, and Sound Healing Experience, Hiking/ Nature Walks

✓ Ocean/ Creek Cold Plunge (To overcome fear, release the past, and jumpstart creation)

✓ Community connection, sharing, and support

✓ Group Integration call one week following Forward

$2,700

your investment:

the timeline:

Thursday afternoon - Sunday morning