We’re a husband and wife team causing transformation in the lives of others, practicing unorthodox methodologies, and getting to the heart of what matters most

trust us, we get where you are

What we have found is that a great deal of the challenges we face in life stem from the difficulty to express what is truly needed and what matters most—whether that’s with a partner, colleague, boss, family member, and especially with oneself. At TLC, we use proven methodologies and a fresh approach to help you experience freedom and vitality in your health, relationships- with self and others, and every aspect of your life—right now. The life you want doesn’t have to wait for “one day” or “someday.” It’s available to you today, and it all begins within a conversation.

meet the creators of TLC

Hello! We’re Xavier and Adriana Marin - health, lifestyle, and relationship coaches. At TLC Transformative Learning & Consulting, we believe that the key to a fulfilling life lies in the way we communicate—with ourselves and with the people around us. Many of life’s struggles stem from unspoken needs, unresolved emotions, and disconnected relationships. That’s where we come in.

Our mission is to help individuals, couples, groups, and organizations rediscover their authentic expression and build meaningful connections. Through innovative methodologies, including sound healing, breathwork, and transformative dialogue, we provide the tools and space to release old patterns, embrace new possibilities, and step into your power.

We don’t just address surface-level challenges; we delve into the core of what matters most, empowering you to create a life filled with clarity, love, and purpose. Imagine the freedom of speaking and living from a place of authenticity, nurturing relationships that thrive, and experiencing vitality in every area of your life.

Transformation isn’t a far-off dream—it starts in this very moment. With our guidance, you’ll learn that the foundation for lasting change and healing is already within you. At TLC, we are here to illuminate your path, remind you that “only love is real,” and help you create a ripple effect of connection and well-being that touches every corner of your life.

experience yourself in a new way through our many offerings

  • 1:1 Personal & Executive Coaching with Xavier

    Achieve your biggest goals faster than you ever thought possible. Whether you’re an individual looking to advance personally or a leader driving organizational success, my promise is simple: together, we’ll accelerate your progress, achieving two years worth of results in less than half the time.

    Through personalized 1:1 coaching, we’ll craft a solid foundation to help you see yourself and your potential in a whole new light. You’ll gain clarity on what truly matters while mastering effective communication, and developing the tools you need to turn intentions into actions into results.

    Whether you choose a single session to gain immediate insights or commit to a transformative 3 or 6-month coaching container, every step of the journey is tailored to empower you. Step into your greatness, streamline your efforts, and experience living a life intentionally and on purpose.

    Let's Create

  • Relationship Coaching & Retreats with TLC

    Whether you’re just beginning your journey together or celebrating decades of partnership, our coaching, events, and retreats are designed to transform your relationship into one of connection, joy, and limitless potential.

    At TLC, we work with couples at every stage to eliminate unnecessary struggles, strengthen communication, and create new possibilities. Through powerful conversations and innovative methods, we help you build an environment where each partner feels fully seen, heard, and expressed.

    Our approach is more than problem-solving—it’s about reimagining what your relationship can be. Together, we’ll guide you to deepen understanding and intimacy, resolve conflicts with compassion, and build a shared vision for the life you desire.

    Whether you join us for a single session, an immersive retreat, or ongoing coaching, you’ll experience breakthroughs that not only elevate your partnership but ripple into every area of your lives.

    Let's Create

  • Breathwork & Sound Healing with Adriana

    Discover the transformative power of breath and sound to align your mind, body, and spirit. My sessions are designed to expand your intuition and heighten your awareness, guiding you toward a more heart-centered way of living.

    Through personalized breathwork practices you’ll learn to regulate your nervous system and calm your mind, empowering you to access deeper states of relaxation and presence. Incorporating the healing vibrations of sound, each session creates a space for profound stillness and harmony allowing the body to enter a state of deep relief and self-healing.

    Beyond these practices, we engage in conversation to bring awareness to the thoughts and patterns shaping your reality which allows you the opportunity to shift into a more empowered and intentional way of being.

    Whether you’re seeking stress relief, emotional release, or deeper connection to your inner wisdom, this experience will be a catalyst on your journey toward lasting peace and renewal.

    Let's Create

Testimonials

  • After years of dis-ease in my physical body, with my emotional health, within my spirit, AND in our marriage, the most recent theme in my life has been, "What is medicine?". The container that Xavier and Adriana hold for myself and my husband to share, learn, and collaborate with other like-minded couples has been nothing short of pure, divine, medicine. We look forward to our twice-monthly dose that keeps us WELL and dramatically impacts the healing within our marriage- as well as other aspects of our lives. It is a deep level of support that we didn't know we needed until we jumped in. The health of our marriage ripples out far beyond our comprehension. The immediate ripples are easy to see; in our home life, with our children, how it impacts our work...but this boulder of LOVE is so powerful that it feels quite revolutionary to be honest. World-changing. Life changing. One of the biggest learnings has been, "Only love is real." What a profound truth that acts as a balm during the times when we are triggered by tsunamis of big emotions that cloud our connection. I am deeply appreciative of that. Thank you, dear ones. You are changing the world by offering this space for couples to not only heal but to create something extraordinary. Thank you to the other couples who so graciously share their hearts and souls with us. I love you all deeply.

    — Lindsay Gilman, Arizona

  • Before teaming up with Xavier (Iron Man), life seemed to have a hold on me rather than the other way around. I found myself constantly surrounded by excuses and explanations for why things weren't going the way I wanted them to. However, during the transformative three months I spent working with Xavier, my life underwent a remarkable transformation.

    At the beginning of our coaching, Xavier introduced me to the incredible power of language and our way of being. It was a concept that felt unfamiliar initially, but through countless hours of coaching, I finally grasped its significance. Towards the end of our journey, Xavier introduced me to the Landmark Forum, a turning point that profoundly impacted my life's trajectory. Everything he had taught me began to fit together like pieces of a well-crafted puzzle. I started to perceive the world through a new lens, and it was all thanks to my cherished coach.

    Prior to our partnership, I was often trapped in my own thoughts, but now I've learned to take control and responsibility for my life. I launched a podcast, embarked on a career as a recording artist and musician, and catapulted my real estate investing company to new heights, achieving a tenfold increase. Life has undergone an incredible transformation in the relatively short time that Xavier and I have worked together, and I am eternally grateful.

    With gratitude and warm regards,

    -Nathaniel Cruz (Iron Boy)

  • I had no idea what to expect. Upon Adriana’s request, I came with an open heart, walls down and intention. I felt Adriana’s love for me the moment we met. The journey was peaceful, insightful, emotional and freeing in a way I never comprehend it before. The following day I felt the most at ease. I found myself not a fighting against everything and having a soft heart.

    I finally understand what my husband meant when he would say that I was constantly fighting the system. It feels like from the top of my breast bone up to my head is able to move. It’s not so tight. This is a life changing experience.

    -Emily, Idaho

  • My experience working with Xavier and Adriana has been been powerful, safe, loving and left no stone unturned when it came to working on any and all issues in my life, and more specifically my relationship. The container created by the group setting held every other week was transformative beyond what I thought was possible. Seeing and hearing others speak honestly and openly about what they were going through, and had found resolution in, allows you to see yourself in everyone and learn how to handle whatever life throws at you in a way I had never experienced. It also enables you to implement these changes in your life faster than I imagined it could. These sessions have not only helped heal the relationship with my wife, but have also filtered out to relationships with my children, family, friends and co-workers.

    "Only love is real" So true! Thank you both for creating such a wonderful space! Thank you to every other couple that joined and gave and received so openly as well! This is a gift to the world!

    All my love,

    - Casey Gilman, Arizona

  • In just three meetings with Xavier, my perspective on life has undergone a remarkable transformation. Xavier possesses an extraordinary ability to cut through the noise, offering straightforward insights that have left a lasting impact on my motivation and well-being. During our discussions, Xavier adeptly identified key areas in my life that required attention, demonstrating an insightful understanding of the challenges I faced. His practical advice and methods to manage anxiety and stress were nothing short of life-changing. Xavier's approach is refreshingly honest, devoid of any unnecessary embellishments. His genuine commitment to my personal growth and well-being is evident in every conversation. I now find myself more motivated than ever to overcome obstacles and strive for a better future. In just a short span of time, Xavier has proven to be a catalyst for positive change in my life. I wholeheartedly recommend his guidance to anyone seeking a genuine and effective mentor.

    Sincerely,

    Luis M Villalobos, Los Angeles, CA

  • The amount of growth, love, and intimacy my partner and I have continued to build on these past few months has been extremely powerful, and it's all thanks to TLC! Adriana and Xavier have been the catalyst for my personal growth and in the development of my relationship with my partner, and I couldn't be more grateful for them and what they do. Adriana and Xavier inspire you to be authentic, honest, and wholehearted. They have pushed my partner and I to improve as individuals and as a team. Since working with them, I have noticed a change in my and my partner's career and mindset. All areas in our lives have shifted quickly for us and in the best way possible! A new job, increased income, improved communication, business growth, and more! Being with TLC has made me appreciate my relationship much more because when my partner and I are doing great, everything else in our life falls into perfect harmony and alignment. I am inspired by the love I share with my partner and am thankful for being a part of TLC.

    Thank you, Adriana and Xavier!

    -Natalhie Ruiz, Colorado

  • Wow. Truly an incredible experience. Adriana is a gifted healer with an incredible singing voice. I had been eyeing a session with her but her calendar booked up quickly. I reached out and she was able to accommodate me thankfully! I recently experienced the death of a loved one and wasn’t sure if I was ready to open up and let go. Adriana curated the perfect environment where I felt safe, embraced, and seen.

    This is not a generic experience but truly a personalized session with guidance and next steps to support growth and healing beyond the session. If you’re on the fence, do it. Even if you think this isn’t for you, try it.

    -Chelsea, Michigan

  • Since joining this community, my relationship with my significant other has improved for the best! Before, we would hold on to so many little things that would affect the relationship and never talk about our problems, just allowing them to bubble up under the surface. We would fight weekly and hold on so tightly to what the other person said and did to us. But, being surrounded by such a safe and caring group of people has allowed me to open up more with my partner and express myself wholeheartedly. We now have the space to express sincerely with one another and resolve the conflicts that arise.

    For any couple that is in love and looking to upgrade their relationships to the next level, TLC is the perfect thing to help push you forward.

    -Khalil Combs, Colorado

  • After 30 years of marriage, my husband, Patrick and I divorced. At that point in our lives we didn’t have the tools and support to have the conversations that would keep our marriage intact. We chose being right over being happy. Thank you to Xavier and Adriana for your love and support. Your coaching, Couple’s Calls, and your love and friendship have been totally transformational. I am extremely happy to say that Patrick and I are back together and choosing happiness and love over being right.

    -Sherie Quigley, Arizona

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